Tuesday, February 3, 2009

tiring day

another tiring day~~~ it's time to plan for my own future! it's time to go further!AND it's time not to be involved in other people business!! this is what i learnt today. please dont blame me for being cruel. i'm really tiring for what has happened these few weeks..

As a human being, sometimes we need to be selfish. Or else people will just make use of you! Ask you to do this and that, just like you r a superhero and energizer!! Yes, they can get tired, but u cant! They can be moodless, you cant! You go travelling, shopping, trip, you are playful!!

Had a bad quarrel with my dad tis afternoon and cried in front of the public! This was the 2nd time that made me feel so so sad & disappointed! i dont know y!

2 comments:

Danny Cju said...

Umm, how do you feel now?
对我来说,人与人之间,就应该有一个平衡点比较好。但有时候觉得值得的事就去做。
吵架,其实并不完全是不好的,有时候可以通过吵架更了解,了解后就知道接下来也许应该要对谁或对什么做些什么,当然,有时候,吵架会带来一些伤害。像我不曾吵架的人,真的有时候反而有点想试吵架。最后,希望你们的爱可以帮助你们。 :-)
Don't you have a English version of blog, and this is a post in fully English... He he...

无夜 said...

哟!殷杰在这。最近好吗?想说的是,你的情况,我也曾经身在其中。朋友一夜中反目成仇,只为了“那位”说我没能做到他所期待的表现。很多能伤害人心的话我都经历过,疤痕遗留至今。
不过,这事却给了我指示:须知世界千千万万的二脚直立哺乳类当中又有几个能跟自己合得来呢?毕竟每个人都是一个独立的个体,有自己的想法,自己的准则,自己的生活方式。不是你来影响我,就是我跟着你走。相处之间没有绝对的对与错。
如果尽量相处都合不来,就各走各的吧;如果今天心被人凿伤,明天就该拿出更坚韧的心来面对未来,和反省为何发生此事,免得以后再受伤害。
人间有情,身边的亲人与好友不就是最好的例子吗?愿你能历经生活中的酸甜苦辣,才不枉来世界走一趟。加油!